Your comfort zone might not be where you're happiest.
It might just be where you're most experienced.
There’s a reason change can feel so uncomfortable.
When we’ve done something for years, we know what to expect. We’ve practised. We’ve made mistakes, learned from them and built experience.
There’s familiarity there.
And familiarity can feel comfortable, even when the job, career or path itself is no longer making us happy.
Then we start thinking about something different.
A new career. A new role. Going back to study. Applying for something we’ve never done before.
And suddenly, everything feels uncertain.
But perhaps that discomfort isn't always a sign that we're making the wrong choice.
Sometimes, it simply means we're stepping away from what we know.
Research into how people respond to change highlights the role uncertainty plays in our reactions, while studies on comfort zones also recognise that unfamiliar and challenging experiences can naturally feel uncomfortable.
So maybe the goal isn't to wait until the next step feels completely comfortable.
Because if we're waiting for something unfamiliar to feel as comfortable as something we've practised for years, we might be waiting a long time.
Instead, perhaps we can remind ourselves:
Familiar doesn't always mean right.
And uncomfortable doesn't always mean wrong.
Sometimes, the discomfort is simply part of gaining the experience that will eventually make the unfamiliar feel familiar too.
A reminder for the week ahead: Don't let the comfort of what you know stop you from exploring what could be.
